Tongue on clit. I use a finger to apply pressure to her ass. It focuses her attention to what I am doing.

 

It is whatever you want. If you like fingering tell him, if you just want a cilt tongue bath let him know. No man is going to know what you want unless you tell him.

 

You can use a finger but the majority of the time I don't and the wife loves it regardless. Using a finger on her sphincter is usually a better use for it. Honestly, it takes a lot of practice to get a good feel for it and I always have to be attentive to her reactions. Sometimes I'll think I'm doing everything right but I may not be hitting the right spot, going too hard or not hard enough. I imagine every woman is different so what might be great for her may not be great for another. It's definitely something that requires patience.

 

Fingering is a great way to warm up with or keep the pussy's fire burning during other activities and although I may throw it in minimally as an added feature from time to time. No fingering would only limit my full access from the many positions I eat pussy when I'm focused on making a woman "climb the walls"! My hands are usually caressing the inner or outer thighs, above my head on her belly and tits as I'm from the thought that the hands must always be in contact with the body during any form of sex.

 

I don't like to be fingered when receiving oral. It kind of just distracts me from how good the oral is feeling. I can not concentrate on it as much. It is more about the motions and rhythm. She is right alot of guys start building you up close to orgasm then change rhythm and then you lose it. I once had a cunnilious 101 thread here. Maybe we need to start up another class on it. Lol @Cherrypop it is also alot about you relaxing and don't be afraid to speak up and say what you enjoy the most. If your afraid you will not get there it makes it seem to take longer. If you can tell they are doing it for your pleasure and because they too enjoy it that also helps you seem to relax more.

 

On the other sides of learning to speak up, which any good pussy eater cannot because his/her mouth if full LOL! If your lover is not the talkative type you must learn to listen and not just focus on finding the "I'm preparing to cum" sound, but the nuances as they go through the waves of pleasure and know that they appreciate some of the more subtle "sweet spots"?

There are places within the folds, around the clit, outside the folds, etc; that may never lead to an orgasm that are very individual to the woman you are with and can build upon a devastating orgasm by timing them just right before their orgasmic release. They are as individual as the differences between the butterfly kiss to the deep passionate French kissing tongue, so don't go in with a preconceived notion based on previous lovers except maybe as a starting point?

Most important (in my experiences) is at the moment of engagement wipe your mind clean of any ulterior motives such as fucking her, cunnilingus is a stand alone technique for her pleasure and shouldn't be rushed to get inside her! If your eating her pussy there's a good chance (done well) she'll want to be fucked eventually, so let that unfold naturally.

 

No fingering isn't "required" IMO licking and rubbing is more important than fingering. But every woman has different needs. I actually prefer to "masturbate" her. Most woman have a special spot, so just ask her where she likes to be touched/rubbed.

 

Not required but can certainly help! Just be sure to put the emphasis on the licking and sucking!

 

Just ask her. Sometimes it needed or wanted but so is everything else at times. No two ladies are alike and thank God they aren’t
I take it slow and experiment till I know exactly what she wants then I buckle down and blow her mind.

 

I'm not really an expert, I've only tasted one woman and I'm married to her. She seems to enjoy what I do.
Yeah I use fingers, she quite likes to sit on my face as I lick away, and I'll play with her arse while I do it. Slipping a finger or two in

 

I find that just using my mouth is great at the start. It takes longer to get a woman to orgasm and once they have come down from their orgasm is good preparation for another go but this to.e using fingers as well. My partner likes it third time round if l finger both holes, especially her anus.
However, l think their is now set rule, work out from her reaction what she likes and if she advises you on her preference... Listen!!!

 

Not required by definition but as long as your licking it, using your fingers to open it, why not stick in a finger, its not against the rules, whats a woman gunna say, "no sticking, only licking"

 

My wifes go to is oral and she likes to have multiple orgasms. so i have been trained to do it well. To finger or not to finger.....? Yes you must be. But when? When you want it. Where? Where you want it. I can only speak from experience, today tomorrow next week it will be different things she wants done to her.
In the vagina. She normally doesn't want one straight in there but is perfectly happy to have her lips and hole stretched open till she's cum the first time. After that, two up there and a stroke on the gspot is perfectly acceptable. Squirting, not squirting? sometimes this fingering annoys her as she says it makes her feel like she needs a pee. She squirts more often without me fingering her and not that fake porn pee stuff, a solid little cum.
In the arse. She cums twice as hard and 4 times faster if i wedge a finger up her bum. But only after she's had the first few orgasms. She will normally let me know when she wants it by moving her arse to my mouth. She normally does this while she's relaxing in between orgasms. Makes me tongue it and get it nice and wet for my finger. To tease her and slow her orgasm down sometimes i will finger her arse first off, it's apparently very distracting when she doesn't want it.
In the Vagina and in the arse. This doesn't happen often, I'm sure you've all heard of two in the pink and one in the stink? It is uncomfortable for her as he fingers move funny and don't tickle the right spots all at he right time.

On the whole I would say she prefers a single finger in the bum to anything else while I'm licking her clit.
She is different everyday so i don't see why you shouldn't be. Find a guy, train him to do what you like and then enjoy when he decides to tease you because your going to cum twice as hard.

 

I love to be fingered and licked and sucked at the same time. Favourite is to have fingers deep in arse and other fingers fuckin g in and out of my Pussy while he,sucks kicks and nibbles my clit

 

No, a toy works fine as well As others commented, it's my experience as well that it's different with every woman and on most occasions. I've had women orgasm by tongue only, just as it didn't happen after trying about everything I can imagine. I just try to respond to her body, communicate, really enjoy myself, focus on her pleasure and be blissfully ignorant of time or reaching orgasm. Especially the last part makes it much easier to come, it seems.

 

The best way to give oral to a woman is by enjoying and loving what you're doing. You can read and learn all different tongue techniques, and shit. But if you don't enjoy or love what you're doing, you're still gonna suck. Because you don't have a desire for it, and it's gonna show.

If you're man is doing something that he may not be really crazy about, in brace it because he's doing it for you. You can also try helping him out? By getting into it and grinding against his mouth, holding his head tightly against your pussy while grinding off on his mouth? You should know if a man is into it or not? And when you know a guy is not really into, you should at least know that he must be really into you.

The last time I fingerd a girl was in the back row of the movie theater, when we went to see Jaws. When I'm giving oral, all I need to use is my mouth, lips and tongue! Because I absolutely love it.

 

Girls generally prefer to get it warm wet and loose, in my experience I have seen girls spreading legs the moment we enter the room to girls who want to get so much more before the sex, I also like to take the scenic route and I prefer intimacy much more than just in out

 

Eating pussy tops my list of favorite things to do so I'm always trying to improve.

Any ladies want to help me refine my technique?

 

The consensus is this is a "no".