So my wife met this army guy who just came back from Iraq and his girl left him the very same day that he came back . He's got a very muscular body and mi wife likes him so I tell her to go for it and fuck him one whole nite I give her permission to do so . My question is if I keep letting her fuck other guys will she eventually find a guy who she will fall for ? I wouldn't like to let her go if that happens .

 

Go with her....she might really like two at a time

 

i would keep doing other guys, but, im a slut!! ...but you should let her, she'll learn some new things and you'll benefit too!

 

You should go with her, its a lame saying but so true, "The couple that plays together stays together". If she having fun by herself then what does she need you for? I've been there and I have seen it happen to myself and others.
So much better when a couple plays together.

 

besides....what would you be doing on your own without her....??

 

I like my misses to get fucked but as long as I'm there watching such a turn on

 

I would find it a turn on to be watched, you should go with her.

 

if u all u worry about is her falling for someone else , then u might need to look further than that , if u wanna see her fuck others okay that's ur thing but as "ur girl" she should be only fuking u I don't see how u can carry urself as a man truly but to each their own i guess

 

orgasms equal love..

That is what my wifes shrink said when her "casual" boyfrined relationship turned serious... sex and orgasms build intimacy. If you are going to play with others, I suggest you do it together... or limit it to one night stands. Just our experience... but sex apart from each other invites building INTIMACY apart, when what you really want is just something naughty and fun.... and if you get a kick out of IMAINING your wife getting slutty, wont it be even better to SEE IT?

 

One each end is hot.
And he should fuck her when she returns from being a slut.

 

I suppose that's one way to show your patriotism!

 

It depends on individual. ...if you are a sport and so is your wife then only try...else most of the men are egoistic and that sex may ruin your married life....

 

Here is what we do...

So as well as rebonding after she has been a slut; by fucking her.
You can also tell her that she can keep any guys she wants to; as fuck buddies or the like.
Win-Win, right?

 

You're assuming the the only way she'd find another man to fall for would be for him to fuck him.
She might meet someone at work, grocery store, library, etc.
If she just threw this soldier a mercy fuck that's one thing but if she keeps going back to him then they've developed a relationship.
That doesn't mean that she's fallen in love with him or is planning on leaving you.

 

Don't let her fly solo.. make sure you stay close. Let her fuck anybody wanting up her skirt. But make sure its not a return visitor..

 

I agree with the others, keep an eye on her and you might also get some fun sex yourself. Don't be afraid to experiment with the guys, either.

 

Are you fucking other women?

 

Hey DT,


As long as you both willfully and can agree with engaging in the activities (together and apart). Communicating with each other about the concerns you've mentioned here and always revisit the boundaries you both feel are important in defining your relationship.

If the pursuits of exploring the thrill of sexual encounters can make your relationship stronger, I'd say go for it. However, if those activities replace your own relationship's intimacy, there is a definite cause for concern.

 

I don't think most men go into a threesome looking for a mate. I may be wrong but who wants a woman who needs more than one man to have a good time?
It is fun but you will probably never meet someone to take home to meet momma.

 

they most certainly do not. In this case, it really is just about the sex. Besides, how awkward would that be when others ask "how did you two meet?" :lol:

Bringing in a third is no different. It can actually bring couples closer as long as both parties are mature and secure enough in their relationship. But again, it's just sex and the third party is just a live sex toy