to the conclusion that some people love to be loathed as much as some love to be loved, It must trigger the same chemical reaction inside of each of them.

 

Everyone is an attention whore in their own way

 

It would help if they could experience both and learn the difference. What all people want is to know they have some effect on the world. It's great to be loved, but some people just settle for what they can get.

 

true but i did forget to add that i was meaning people on here

 

Jealousy is rife on here. You just have to take everything with a pinch of salt, including compliments.

You're attractive, you're popular with the men and it's bound to attract negativity from the same sex as yourself.

If the hate is coming from a man, then again, it's jealousy because you are getting attention from elsewhere.

My advise, ignore him/her. Nothing will piss them off more.

 

I love what you said & i agree. I do think some people seem to love to be hated but what is their night like at the end of the day & what do they question about themselves & how they acted that day? What makes them want to be hated? I question alot of things like this even within my own family. On here i see certain posts & wonder wow who pissed in that guys cornflakes?

 

Oh i live by the rule everyone's opinion of me is their business and i can't and won't change it so no point stressing about it, The only opinions of me i care about are those of my loved ones.

 

But i agree with both of you girls

 

I dunno about this one. I am usually happy when someone finds success and even more happy if a girl can find a guy as then that is less I have to fight off but that is me personally. Usually I find someone doesn’t want to look at their issues/behavior and so saying jealously is an easy way out instead of taking a good hard look at ones own actions that caused a reaction in someone. Especially when you tell them politely and their answer back is rude or denying. Many people only look through their own lens and don’t even try to see a point from someone else’s shoes and then self-evaluate before reacting. Of course that takes maturity though. I don't see much maturity here.

Ignoring people to piss them off just creates more tension which leads to possibly more problems when it comes up again as things build, why not extend a hand to build a bridge and treat someone like you would want to be treated.

 

Danger danger intelligent women engaging in discussion alert alert

 

What? Oh fuck ... we can't have that getting out now... I forgot that I am only here to suck cock.

 

Please continue my dear nothing more attractive to me than an intelligent confident women . Unfortunately others would see it as a threat

 

Hahaha Brandi is funny!

 

Glad that I could please someone today and no shit look it is another bloody Canadian of all things, no wonder you get me.

 

Yes we do have a different sense of humor dont we Brandi

 

Got a fan do you??

 

I think the same thing. There are some members who post stuff just to see how many people they can piss off. Some of it is entertaining but some not so much.

 

Why would you post such a thing here, Brandi?! DL is highly offended by such!!!

 

I agree

 

Who is DL Just kidding........